In Loving Memory...!!

1st Anniversary
In Loving Memory of
Lena Lindevall
(MIL's sister)


Departed : 31st Oct,2007

The years has gone
yet memory of you
still linger on.........

Deeply missed and forever remember by all of us...the Norsäters Family.....

Weekend Cruise !

Last friday were we on cruise...me, hubby, Olivia(SIL) and her boyfriend Josef . It was just 1 day cruise. We came back on saturday evening. Ryan stayed with his granny Ewa. As usual when we went for cruise....what to do is just eat..drink(alcohol..hehehe),dance and buy tax free stuffs. I bought...oppss...hubby bought for me a bottle of Burberry perfume...mmmm it smells good!



besides..i also bought some liquor...hehehe...

on our last day on the cruise..we had our lunch at Russian restaurant and i had...Salty cucumber w/ cream cheese

Pelmenis with mushroom sauce (Starter)

Chevre gratinated fillet of pork w/ potato pumpkin pure (on the side)
(Main course)

Frosty cranberries and vanilla ice cream serve w/ hot caramel sauce ( olivia had this for dessert)

We had so much fun I am so satisfied with this trip!

Ryan with his BBKK......!!

Taaaddaaaa..........Ryan with his BBKK.....

BuliBa KalauKau !!!

two weeks ago i chat with Kuyung about the T-shirt ''BuliBa KalauKau''...it looks nice. I asked her if i can order for baby but she said that they don't have for babies unless i order 40 pcs so maybe they can make special for me. Wahhh 40 pcs sepa mau pakai..anak sa 1 saja. So i told her...ok never mind i will do it myself. Since i love to do things...painting, sewing,make scrapbooking and etc...so in my mind..why not i do it myself. So 2 days ago i went to the hobby shop called 'Panduro Hobby' and bought a set of textilpen and bring home...as soon as i got home, i took out the stuff and start writting...i choose blue and yellow color for the baby romper since blue and yellow is Swedish flag colour. Well it was not so beautiful but i am almost satisfied...and it was just a test! and Ryan can wear it at home...hehehe ...I will make 1 more ..for real! taaadaaaa...soo amacam..ok jua kan....nah kan i said i can make myself..even almost bida' but not bad....anyway will make for real one soon...TUNGGGUUUUUUU !!!!!!!!!! bah sepa mau order baby rompers 'BULIBA KALAUKAU' nah ada suda supplier baru sini...aiseh..joking ja ahh,marah nanti tu company yg jual ni baju..ada saingan. bah those who think mau beli the T-Shirt...nah this is the website www.borneoutara.com !

To those who are married, .. not married .. and soon to be married ...

Hello there...i received forwarded email from someone and it is very meaningful ...and I wanna share this with you..

'' When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain.. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work.. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up
stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. :((


The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!''

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.

All the best !!

WHAT I'VE BEEN DOING TODAY??? ...I feel exhausted..!!

Hi reader...I am back...

Today is a busy days for me and Ryan...here was our schedule..

8.05am - woke and play with Ryan...we talk..we sing...

8.30am - prepared breaskfast for Ryan and me...i ate bubur and ryan oso ate bubur but bubur nestume

9.05am - change Ryan cloth....pyjamas to home cloths,change diaper, wash his face and brush his tooth.( just to make him familiar wth the brush) coz ada budak nie nda suka berus gigi...adadaa

then i put him on his baby chair and give him his toy..he play by hilself and i went fix myself.

10.15am - Ryan's nap time..so he slept for 1 hour and me..was trying to get some rest too but unfortunately tia buli tdur..bikin meradang butul. maka rasa panaaatt butul. Since i still have pain on my tooth yg kana operate,so i called the dentist and asked them why its still so much pain sampai sakit kepala ni..so they asked me to come at 3pm and i say yes ok..i am coming.! so i went to the kitchen..cleaning and prepare food for dinner supaya nanti tinggal masak. I made wanton soup for dinner. and taadaaa...

haaa itu baru bunga2...blum siap lagi...it's was just the preparation...

11.20am - Ryan woke up and want mommy to play wth him...so i read books for him...sing for him etc..

12.00noon - prepare Ryan swimming stuff, Ryan have his baby swim today..huhhh,macam malas mau pigi panaaatt but have to. for Ryan...

12.15pm - it's time to goo but....oooppss sakit perutku...then have to run to the toilet ...doii time orang mau jalan baru mau sakit perut. Pastu time mau kasi pakai Ryan his autumn jacket...nahh me tecium bau busuuukkk,Ryan BIRAKKK ! doiii tambah lagi me rushing change his diaper..the baby swim actually start at 1pm. bah trus kelam kabut la jalan....

12.59 - reached the swimming pool..and me nda sempat bayar the fees lagi nasib the receptionist kasi masuk saja...dia bilang bayar after finish ( dia nampak sa lari sda kan...kana kasian la..)

2.25pm - Finished swimming and went to reception and bayar hutang! 700kronor (RM350) for 8 times lesson. Headache trus ...but but never mind..for Ryan! then we rushing walked down town for the dentist. sampai town masi awal and me and Ryan went in to toys shop.....cuci mata only.


3.00pm - went in to the room..where i had my operation last week....and ryan macam heran ni...wondering mana dia ni...pastu doctor check dia bilang ok, everything is fine..and come back next tuesday ada remove the stitches...ada 4 stitches ba... makan pun susah..so he told me just to take Alvedon and Ipren. kalo di malaysia tu lebih kurang macam...panadol and ponstan ahh gitu la tu.

3.15pm - kijap ja kan dia check...heheh we went buy birthday card to send to Martin's sister...she will turn 28 this coming friday.

4.00pm - went home ..........it was cold and windy

4.15pm - we reached home and put ryan on his coat and he play himself. Me pigi prepare dinner..kasi panas sup and rinse the wanton.

5.30pm - Hubby came home and i asked him if he is hungry and he said Yes. so i told him...if i go prepare food...you feed Ryan...so that was the deal....

6.00pm - makan time....taaadaaa


hubby : mmm sedap la...it taste good...maybe we can eat this often..not only today ..right hon..?

me : wink** (macam hint saja tu bunyi dia...) mmm yeahh..maybe if you like it..dont you thik it's too salty?

hubby : mmm no...i like it...

nah good la if he like it...nda sia2 usaha sa..hehehe...

7.20pm - Ryan's bed time...hubby went to change his pyjamas and i assist him...pyjamas change,diaper change, clean his hand and feet...put some cream on his body and give him baby massage...thats his routine since he was born .....and now we also start to brush his tooth before sleep..only 1 tooth..funny oo but he seems like it..

7.40pm - hubby make formula to Ryan and i play a bit with him...hubby came and put Ryan on his bed and start to read book for him...same book that i read for him since he was in my belly..1month pregnancy ( i read for him everynite until now)...so he pretty much recognize the story...ahh now of course la coz he is now 9 months old. sedang2 hubby read for Ryan..me pun tertidur..duuiii feel exhausted!!!! pheewww...

8.00pm - Ryan sleeping....and me wake up and out from the room...and sit in front of my pc.....and blogging. Now is already 9.29pm....and i am finishhhhhhhh !!! taaadaaaa...wanna go watch some movie and eat ice-cream...yummy..yummy...peduli la tu sakit..! blakang kira.. till then ...see ya.............................natti natti...!!

Month Of Rosary...!

October is the month in which Mary, Most Holy Queen of the Holy Rosary, is venerated.

The month of October has been specially selected as the "Month of the Rosary," and the feast of the Holy Rosary is now celebrated on the 7^th of this month.

I'm in pain.................waaaaaaaa...!!

I had operated my wisdom tooth last wednesday and now i have so much pain on my face and mouth. Luckily my MIL came yesterday and helped me take care of Ryan during the day and so i can get some sleep. MIL brought Ryan out for a walk and when they came home she told me that Ryan have bought me flower..its a Tulips.


and in the evening when daddy came home...another surprise for me....taaadaaa...my favourite flower ...wawww siok pla bila sakit ni kan...hehehee...anyway, tq my two sweet heart! Big baby and small baby...ahhaakksss!!

Ryan 9 Months....

My sweet little baby....

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